Net Worth: Why "Broke" Means "Building Wealth"
Net Worth Series: Why "Broke" Can Mean "Building Wealth"
- Key Points (Quick Scan)
- Many couples feel strapped for cash even with good incomes, thinking they're going backwards financially.
- Cash flow shows how much money comes in and goes out, but your net worth tells the real story of your wealth.
- Regularly checking your net worth can reveal hidden wealth, like equity in your home, that you might overlook.
- Understanding your net worth shifts your focus from just getting by to steadily building long-term wealth.
Why "Cash Rich, Wealth Poor" Gets a Bad Rap
It's a strange feeling, isn't it? You and your partner are both working hard, bringing home solid paycheques, and yet when payday rolls around, it feels like all that money just evaporates. Bills, mortgage, groceries, kids' activities – it's a never-ending cycle, and you're left wondering, "Where does it all go?" Many couples I chat with feel like they're failing at money, even when they're earning what most would consider a good income. They're convinced they're going backwards.
The truth is, how much cash you've got in your bank account on any given day isn't the full picture of your financial health. Cash flow is important for daily living, absolutely. But it's like watching a footy game and only seeing the ball in play, not the scoreboard that shows who's really winning. For too long, I focused solely on the "game" of cash flow, always feeling a bit behind. It was only when I started looking at the bigger picture – my net worth – that I realised my perception was completely off. The scoreboard was telling a totally different, much more encouraging, story.
A Couple's Story
I remember a young couple from Brisbane, Sarah and Tom. They were pulling in a combined $160,000 a year, which is a cracking income, but every fortnight they felt broke. Seriously, they'd look at their bank account balance and just sigh. Mortgage repayments, childcare, the rising cost of petrol – they were convinced they were just treading water, maybe even sinking a bit. They'd even started having those awful 2 am money worries, wondering if they could cover an unexpected bill.
When we sat down, I encouraged them to do something they’d never really done: calculate their net worth. This meant tallying up everything they owned – their savings, superannuation, and most importantly, the value of their family home – and then subtracting what they owed, like their mortgage and any other debts. What they found was a huge shock to them, but a lovely one. They'd built up over $340,000 in home equity that they hadn't even thought about! That's real wealth, sitting right there in their biggest asset. Suddenly, their "broke" feeling vanished, replaced by a huge sense of relief and a whole lot of confidence.
It's easy to overlook the wealth you're already building through your home.
What to Measure
So, if cash flow is the daily game, your net worth is the actual scoreboard. It’s a snapshot of your financial health at a specific moment. Here’s what you need to track to get your net worth picture:
Count Your Assets: These are things you own that have value.
- Cash & Savings: Money in your bank accounts.
- Investments: Any shares, managed funds, or other investments outside of super.
- Superannuation: Your retirement savings fund.
- Your Home: The current market value of your property.
- Other Big Assets: Cars, boats, or valuable collectables (though I usually advise focusing on financial assets first).
Total Your Liabilities: These are things you owe.
- Mortgage: The outstanding balance on your home loan.
- Personal Loans/Car Loans: Any money borrowed for personal use or vehicles.
- Credit Card Debt: The balance you owe on your credit cards.
- HECS/HELP Debt: Your student loan debt.
Calculate Net Worth: Simple really: Total Assets – Total Liabilities = Net Worth.
💡 Tip: Don't stress about perfect valuations for your home. Use a reliable online estimate or recent sales in your area to get a good ballpark figure.
Why Couples Should Measure Net Worth Together
Doing this as a team multiplies your results, trust me. It’s not about blame; it’s about clarity and working together.
- Shared Vision: You both see the bigger picture, aligning your money goals to what you’re truly building, not just what you’re spending.
- Encouragement & Motivation: When one of you feels down about cash flow, the other can point to the growing net worth score and remind you of your progress.
- Better Decisions: Discussions about big purchases or investments become grounded in your overall wealth strategy, not just your immediate bank balance.
- Celebrate Wins: Watching that net worth number grow quarter by quarter is incredibly motivating and gives you both something real to celebrate beyond just paying bills.
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Common Questions
- How often should I check my net worth? I recommend checking it once every quarter. It's often enough to see progress and make adjustments, but not so often that you get bogged down in daily fluctuations.
- What if my net worth is negative? That's totally normal, especially if you've recently bought a home or have student debt. The key is knowing where you stand so you can create a plan to improve it, not to feel discouraged. It's just a starting point.
What We Covered
- Many high-income couples feel broke despite growing their wealth.
- Cash flow is your daily budget, but net worth is your true financial scoreboard.
- You can calculate your net worth by subtracting liabilities (what you owe) from assets (what you own).
- Even home equity you 'forget about' counts as significant wealth towards your net worth.
- Monitoring your net worth shifts your perspective from surviving to thriving and building long-term wealth.
Instead of only looking at your weekly bank balance, start tracking your net worth. You might be surprised to find how much wealth you've already built without even realising it. Keep your eyes on the scoreboard, not just the game.
— Dave The Money Dad
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Dave The Money Dad content is educational only and does not constitute financial advice. Please consult a licensed financial adviser before making any financial decisions.
